Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Monday, June 9, 2014

Desde Guatemala: Antigua 1st Attempt, Day 3

We arrived back at Tia Angie's house at about 7am after the long ride back from Tikal.  We immediately hit the bed for a few hours.

Tia Angie's Kitchen

Local store





The most exciting part of today was the big reveal of my grandparent's new house!  It's almost every latino immigrant dream to "make it in America" enough so that they have the ability to build a house back in their home country and one day retire there. Thanks to my uncle's help, my grandparents did just that.

Abuelito planting mangos

Their avocados

Volcano in the background


After checking out the house, we headed to Antigua --- 

Cathedral of San José


Thursday, December 26, 2013

Desde Guatemala (Intro)

My Abuelito (Gabriel) giving my cousin Angel a "talk" on Father's Day (2013) :: Bronx, NYC

Welcome to the Longology mini series: Desde Guatemala.  ("From Guatemala")

For those of you who don't know my family is from Guatemala. Both my parents & both sets of grandparents were born and raised in Guatemala so I like to say that I'm 100++++++% Guatemalteca lol.

For a long time now I've been wanting to document my family's story.  How did we get here? Is our story different than any other immigrant's story? Why do I care?  The honest answers to these questions are: I know a little bit, but not enough.

Do you know your family's story? How did they get to where they are today? Do you care to know and is it important for later generations in your family to know? I am very intrigued by families who have their history documented in one way or another (video, books, photos, etc).  I don't have that and I want to have it for my family.  I have one seen about 5 super old pictures of my family. I feel the urgency now more than ever to at least begin this journey in capturing our story. My plan is to document our story via photographs and mini-video stories which I can compile into one nicely packaged format and hand out copies to each one of my family members.  I have no idea how long this will take to finish, but my goal is to get it done and finished.  I envision this project to be on-going after the initial cut since our story will continue.

On Saturday Adonis and I leave for Guatemala.  It'll be my first time back in 11 years and his first there.

Here is a little of what I know (or think I know):

  • My grandfather was in the Guatemalan military
  • My grandparents met in Guatemala but were from two different "social classes" Country girl vs. City Boy and dark skin vs. light skin
  • My grandfather was the first one to come to the U.S.  A few years later my grandmother, uncles, and mom followed (all a la "Cross The Border" style)
  • They lived in California before settling in NYC
  • My mom was 17 yrs old when she came to U.S., spoke zero English, but eventually earned her high school diploma & Associates Degree
  • My uncle has ran his own appliance shop in the Bronx ever since I can remember
  • My oldest cousin (who was 5 yrs old when she arrived in the U.S.) was the first in our family to earn a bachelor's degree & a master's degree.  I was the 2nd.
  • My grandparents have been married for 53 (ish) years
  • My grandparents have been U.S. citizens for many many years now -- but my mom isn't. 

We'll save the "why we're going" and "what we'll do once we're there" for later posts.  In the mean time -- Welcome back Longologists!

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Day 274: Lucky Big Sister


My siblings and I are close and far apart in age but some how I manage to maintain a close relationship with each one. I am fortunate that even though I am 18 years older than my youngest sister looks up to me and still sees me as her sister - if that makes any sense.

The picture above is one of the many reasons I love being a big sister. Jelly Bean (as I call her) is very artistic (just like my brother). She creates miniature food, jewelry, hair accessories, pins, etc. from modeling clay. She creates and sells. She used her hard earned money to buy her four siblings Christmas gifts! She's only 11 yrs. old but how cute, independent, entrepreneurial, and hard-working is she??? She's a scorpio, I'm not surprised. But, I am proud.

Check out her work (if you want to order, let me know!)


Thursday, September 1, 2011

Day 150: School Daze


Today I travelled down to Salisbury, M.D. to help move my sister into her new school. Salisbury University. She is completing her Masters of Fine Arts and I couldn't be more proud of her. 


After spending the last couple days not feeling 100%, I decided a road trip and some positive family time was in order. I had just dropped Diana off at the airport yesterday and was already missing my partner in crime. The trip was long one, even for me. I'm about an 1.5hr from the NYC, my family's home (pitstop) is 3.5hrs from Ny, and Darion's school was another 2hr's from there. As I pulled onto campus, I was immediately transported back to Morgantown, remembering my move into "towers". It seemingly goes the same no matter where you attend. The parents rush for a good spot by the front doors, students stand Bambi eyed on the curb next to a pile of their crap, and RA's run around trying to keep everything in order. Parents get the students settled into their rooms, then off to target, walmart, and the grocery store to stock the mini fridge. No worries, we did the same. Hung clothing, lunch at Ruby Tuesday, Walmart, and back in the room to organize it all.


Side Note: I love my sister so much. We found "angry birds" wall vinyls, she let me buy em' and stick them all around her room! Even if she took them down as soon as I left, she still let me do it, and it was a good laugh. 


About an hour into getting settled, the fire alarm boomed through the halls. Its starting already, I thought to myself. Damn I loved college. We all filed outside and began to wait patiently in the great lawn. The RA's shuffled around and then addressed the crowed of exhausted eyes, "this is real and you're not going back in the building for a while, so if you have you meal cards go eat, otherwise, we'll see ya's later!" We found Darion's roomates through the thick crowd, and figured this would be a great time to get a look at campus. We meandered through the buildings, taking mental notes of all the building names and short cut paths of travel. Darion's roomies were in the process of preparing dinner before the fire alarm went off. They went to grab some crabs before coming back to realize they'd be toting a couple pounds of crab around campus for the next hour. So yea, everywhere we walked smelled like crab. Eventually everything went back to normal. Dari was fully moved in and I was back on my way to the Md/D.C. Metro area for more family time. 








Our first official day together was unexpectedly eventful for me. I stayed with my girlie Em in L.A. for the night. She's a crime analyst and asked me to go to work with her.  I said, "Sure!".  I woke up early due to jet lag but quickly fell back asleep in a slump because the husbantry wasn't laying next to me. She picked me up during lunch and took me to work with her where she surprised me and told me I was going on a ride along with the Sheriff's department!!!

I signed my waiver, slapped on the bullet proof vest, buttoned up the raid jacket, and hopped in the back seat of the car. I didn't know what expect. They briefed me on what to do... just in case. During our ride I asked questions as they pointed out many different gang territories.  We pulled over and searched a few guys, did a car stop, and a house call. The whole time I couldn't help but think of Adonis and how much he would have loved to ride along. Em promised he'd get his chance when he's in L.A. Before the guys dropped me back off at the station, we had lunch at a seafood truck.  Delicious! I wish I would have taken a picture of the food but I was busy stuffing my face with shrimp cocktail!